Pretty Girls Getting Burned
So I am a pretty, mid-twenties, active, thin girl. My friends are also very pretty and fun. What I can’t seem to grasp is why we keep getting burned by guys. Guys should be DYING to date us and whenever we meet one something falls through.
Let’s take a look at this past weekend:
So I had a male friend come down for the weekend. Let it be noted that I’m completely not interested in him. He’s been friends with my older brother for as long as I can remember. But with him he brought three co-workers. One was engaged, the other looked like Travie McCoy and the third was short, but super dreamy. My roommates and I were having a party on Friday so I was already wasted by the time they got there. (They were coming from five hours away.)
Originally I had wanted to make out with the Travie lookalike, but somehow I woke up naked next to the short dude. We didn’t have sex, but came close apparently. It got a little awkward the next day, but we talked about it a little. He was worried I’d be mad for what happened. I was wasted and I get pretty randy so I assume it was my doing and since we didn’t have sex, it’s not that big of a deal to me. No risk of pregnancy so whatevs.
But something terrible has happened. He hasn’t called or texted me. I don’t know what to do. He didn’t have his phone on him so when he left I sent him a Facebook message the next day with my phone number. He was such a nice guy I expected him to at least give me his number back. He even asked for mine! His phone was out of battery all weekend and stuck in the car of the guy who was driving (this is not a lie, I’m not that stupid). Now I’m obsessing over a guy I met once and lives five hours away. Mid-twenties can kind of blow sometimes.
In the same hand, my friend from home got stood up by TWO guys she had dates lined up with from match.com. You would think those guys would be more reliable considering they’ve resorted to a dating website for help meeting women. And I saw a picture of one. Not cute. Not deformed, as Jenn would say, but definitely not cute. And my friend from home is cute too and likes to do lots of fun stuff.
My friends and I are all really fun girls who are really adventurous and cool. You think I’m vain, but fuck off, we legitimately are. Maybe guys our age are just really fearful of commitment, but you know what? I’ve been fearful for most of my life up until this point so can someone please just date me?
Quasi-Dating 